“Confident women focus on controllables.”
Contrary to what most people think confident women sometimes doubt themselves and their abilities. So, being confident doesn’t necessarily mean that you will never have self-defeating thoughts or feelings. You will. Doubt, concern and nervousness are real feelings and they happen whether you’re confident or not.
Instead of spending time doubting themselves, or, worrying about what they cannot do or might not be able to do, confident women focus on what they can control. They turn their concentration away from uncertainty and toward conviction.
You can do the same. When you concentrate on the “cans” and forget the “can’ts,” your self-confidence soars.
©Jane Powell – Meditations for Women
Today’s Affirmation: I concentrate on what I CAN control.